Hello Ms. Rica,
My boyfriend wants me to try and swallow his cum. Kahit daw i-try lang namin. Sa totoo lang, wala naman akong problema with that kasi nagawa ko naman na in the past iyon. Ang hindi ko lang kasi masabi sa kanya is I think that I am allergic to his cum. Every time kasi that he ejaculates tapos may contact ‘yung skin ko sa sperm nya, namumula and medyo nangangati ‘yung part na ‘yon. Paano ko kaya malalaman for sure or paano ko kaya sasabihin sa kanya? Salamat.
Red Skinned Longganisa
Hi Red Skinned Longganisa,
Mukhang ang pamumula at pangangati ay sign na merong protein sa semen ng iyong boyfriend na hindi hiyang sa iyong skin. Tinatawag itong human seminal plasma protein hypersensitivity. Depende din kung saan ang pangangati, pwede itong maging sintomas ng isang infection. I think the best way is to tell your boyfriend straightforward and maybe consult a doctor para mas ma-identify ninyo ang cause nito. Ang semen allergy naman ay kayang madetermine through skin tests.
Hindi unusual ang ganitong reaction sa semen. Ang iba nga ay nagko-cause pa ng pain, itching, redness, pamamaga or minsan pa nga ay kahirapan huminga kaya hinay-hinay lang muna sa paglunok ng cum ni boyfriend. Ang mga symptoms na ito ay nasa 20 to 30 mins after contact na maaaring tumagal ng ilang oras o araw. Depende ito sa iyong personal body chemistry. I suggest that while you are trying to figure this out, gumamit kayo ng condom when you have sex. Para protected kayo talaga!
Kung ang pamumula naman at itching ay sa may vaginal area, pwede rin itong dahil sa yeast infection, bacterial vaginosis or iba pang STI. Pinaka-mainam talaga is to get tested and consult sa inyong preferred doctor. Good luck!
With love and lust,
Rica
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Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist, Marriage Counselor, and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Psychologist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.
