Missing oral sex

BY RICA CRUZ

Dear Doc Rica,

I am bisexual and most of my life I have been with girls. But recently, I guess I missed a dick in my life so I went out with a guy and nakakamiss din naman pala to have sex with a guy. Cur­rently, we have been going out for a while and naalala­ ko din how much I love cum to the point na I enjoy giving blow jobs and swallowing semen. May masamang ef­fects kaya to swallow often? And pardon me for the very naïve question, hindi kaya ito nakakabuntis? Sorry it’s been a while.

Bi Jane

Hello to you Bi Jane,

I see that you are re-learn­ing being in a relationship with someone from the opposite sex. You did not mention how long it has been but it does sound like it has been a while. Mag­kaiba talaga ang dynamics ng either gender when it comes to relationships and sex. As a bisexual woman, I would understand how you may miss having a penis in your sex life.

One risk of swallowing sperm is pwede itong maging way to transmit sexually transmitted infection or STI if one partner is infected. Some people use condoms even while giving blow jobs as practice of safe sex. You and your partner can go to a health professional to have yourselves checked. It is always wise to do that.

But to answer your oth­er question, hindi ka pwe­deng mabuntis by swallow­ing your man’s sperm. Sa digestive system mo papa­sok ang semen and will be processed by your body just like food na kinakain mo.

Pwede ka lang mabuntis ka­pag ang semen ay pumasok ­sa reproductive system through the vagina. Kail­angan magkaroon ng access ng semilya papunta sa iyong egg para mafertilize ito.

Oral sex is really a fun alternative to penile-vagina penetration and I am glad that you are enjoying it. Explore some more. Com­munication is the key. Pag-usapan nyo kung ano pang pwede nyong gawin and have fun. Always enjoy but be safe.

With Love and Lust,

Doc Rica