Early ejaculation

Hello Ma’am Rica,

So first time ko to give some­one a blow job last night. Nag-last lang siya ng mga 30 sec­onds tapos nag-come na siya. Earlier than usual daw ‘yon for him. I am not sure if he just came early or did I do it too fast or something. Or da­pat ba dahil too fast ‘yon may kasunod pa? Sorry very new at this.

                                                                                                Thank you

                                                                                                Virgollipop

Hello Virgollipop,

Congratulations sa iyong new found experience. Maganda ang nagtatanong for more knowledge about sex and sexual pleasure. I hope natuwa ka naman and your partner with your rendezvous last night.

Anyway, may iba’t-ibang mga factors na involved sa orgasm ng isang tao. Medyo mahirap magpin-point ng iisang factor lamang na responsible for the early ejacula­tion.

Merong physical and emotional reactions. Ito din ang mga factors ng intensity at duration ng mga erections.

Ang mga factors above, mixed with the pressure, friction, at iba pang sensual stimulation, contrib­utes to the orgasm.

Taking this opportunity, magan­da to ask your partner kung what worked for him. Meron kasing iba’t-ibang preferences and maaaring nagustuhan niya and helped him ejaculate earlier than usual.

For people who experience dif­ficulty with delaying ejaculation, maaaring may case of premature ejaculation. Ito ay ang pageejacu­late lagi within a minute after pen­etration.

Maraming behavioral, medical, and therapeutic treatments na pu­wedeng i-apply sa mga ganitong cases. Moving forward, maaari ninyong makita ang pattern with your future encounters.

When you talk about the sexual preferences or what works for each other, please do not leave out discussing safe sex and pro­tection. If hindi mo naman balak to take this further with the same person, I encourage you to ex­plore your own preferences and what is pleasurable for you.

Be safe in more ways than one!

With love and lust,

Rica

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Biography: Rica Cruz is a Li­censed Psychologist, Marriage Counselor, and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Psy­chologist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.